The Long Road Trip Part I: Intro To Driving

This blog post is the first in four parts.  The first part covers the preparation for the trip and the drive to Carson City, NV as well as the short stay in NV.  The second part will include the drive from Carson City to Berkeley, CA, San Fransisco, Santa Rosa, Philo, and Ukiah, CA for the weekend of my cousin’s wedding and the several days after that.  The third post will contain the trip from Philo, CA to Newport, OR, Seaside, OR and then to Kalama, WA.  The fourth post will contain information about the stay in Kalama with my in-laws and the drive home to Aurora, CO.

It is important that you get a general sense for the magnitude of this drive.  This road trip was over 3000 miles in length and included about 5 full days of driving.  In short it was long [you have no idea how thrilled I am to write things like that].


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Two days before we headed out Jessica and the family (to a lesser degree) worked hard on cleaning the house. This way we could find all the things we needed to find for packing and come home to a clean house. After you’ve been traveling a clean house is a blessing to come home to. The Wednesday before we headed out she packed (again with minor help from the family). But that night my body decided to revolt and I found myself throwing up until about 1:00AM in the morning. We had planned to leave at 3:00AM, so this was put off and we decided to let me sleep and see how I felt in the morning. At 6:00AM we got up, packed the car up with all of the luggage, toys, food, and family cramming into our trusty Honda CRV and headed out. Our plan, as the map shows, was to traverse the Rocky mountains, the state of Utah and almost all of Northern Nevada. In one day. Myself and the girls had never done this and Jessica hadn’t done it since she was much younger.

Day One: The Drive Across the Western US
The morning we took off was getting to be around rush hour traffic time so we took a slightly windy route out of the Denver metro area and began the ascent into the Rockies. In the Rockies there is a section where there are often buffalo which we got to see in the daylight since we hadn’t left at 3:00AM. About 30 minutes later we saw Big Horn Sheep. Which was quite exciting as we’d never seen them in the wild despite having seen them at the Denver zoo many times.

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We followed US Highway 70 all the way across the Rockies and on the downward descent into the high plains of Colorado and Utah we found ourselves in gorgeous surroundings that I’m sure blew travelers away when they were traversing them in covered wagons and on foot. We were glad to be in our car moving about 60MPH or so. We want to go back to Hanging Lake and check it out more closely. The gorges in that part of the Rockies are a must see. Once we came out into the alluvial fans of the Western slopes of the Rockies we were definitely in the desert. There was green next to the river where things could grow, but shortly out of the river’s reach the ground was bare and easy to see. The reds of iron in the dirt made for pretty stripes on various geological features and we were able to admire the western side of Colorado.

Utah, on the other hand, was barren, and though it had the reds of the iron in the dirt and rocks, it felt unkept. The Mormons must have really questions Brigham Young’s leadership when he brought them into the state because I don’t think they’ve updated any of the roadway signs since then: nobody’s wanted to go back to those parts of Utah by foot, horse or car 🙂 We stopped before Salina and ate peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and then kept our move west. There were some beautiful red canyons, that I’m sure had we stopped would have looked like the Grand Canyon, but we only saw them in the distance. The clock was ticking and we were behind due to my sickness the previous day. Once we passed the midway mark of Salina the road got rather long and the towns were fewer and fewer. There was a 104 mile stretch between the last town and the border of Nevada where Baker, NV breaks the monotony and offers gas, a hotel, restrooms, and of course slot machines and a bar. All in one building.

Salt Flats

We headed to Ely for dinner where we ate at the Golden Arches because we were nervous about the other choices we could find. Scary people live or travel through Ely. By scary I mean men who have their fashion choices firmly planted in the 80’s. Not because Paris Hilton is bringing the 80’s back, but because they never left. We used our cell phones a bit as reception throughout the Rockies and all of Utah had been very, very sparse. Then we headed further west on the last stretch of this long journey. 6 hours (or less if you drive faster) of almost nothing but hills in northern Nevada. We reached our host and hostess’ house in Carson City around 11:15PM. Hyped on caffeine and the girls awake from having gotten a rest in before our arrival we stayed up past midnight catching up on about a decade of not having seen one another.

Day Two: Brennan’s Birthday

Brennan Smiles

My nephew Brennan turned 9 that Friday so we went over to his other grandparents’ house and spent the day with my brother’s family and his in-laws. The kids swam in their pool most of the day and I did my best to get sun burned. Great fellowship was had as we’ve known that family since I was in Jr. High and I can honestly say my brother married his 6th grade sweetheart. He will probably kill me for being so honest. Carson City has changed a lot since I grew up there and moved away in the latter part of last decade, but its still the same: I know because the next morning on the way out of town the woman working the register at the AM/PM gas station was the same gal who worked there when I was a teen.

Cousins

More to come…

A Blog Post About Our Road Trip is Forthcoming

I am going to write a blog post about the trip and insert pictures here and there.  I just have to get settled back in at home.  I’ve got some responsibilities this weekend that are also calling me away from my normal schedule.  Here’s this one to keep you waiting with a smile.

At the beach in Newport, OR

At the beach in Newport, OR

Sad News, Good News

I wanted to post here something that I never, ever would want to post.  Last Tuesday (when internet connectivity was only on my iPhone and my emotions were too intense) Jessica and I drove to the hospital in Ukiah, California and after the morning and part of the afternoon in the ER learned that Jessica had had a miscarriage.  This is not the sort of thing you expect.  This is nearly the worst case scenario.  We cried a lot there in the hospital.  I wrote notes on my iPhone about how I was feeling, but I won’t post them as they’re far too intense for me to publish without feeling like its too much.  They’re also feelings that I don’t have any more because we’re OK.  We’re trusting the Lord that He’s used this to get our attention.  Prior to the unexpected fourth pregnancy (our first pregnancy was also a miscarriage), we we had planned on no more pregnancies.  Except that now our hearts are set on having a third child that we can hold, love and prepare for a life of intensity.

My brother, sister, and I were all born in Ukiah, CA.  It was strange and backwards to go to the same small town and discover that this expected Peterman life would not be seeing Ukiah.  After the doctor’s gentle disclosure of the diagnosis, “Fetal Demise”, we went to eat (having missed breakfast and our normal lunch) at a place where I recall eating with glee as a boy, the Mutt Hut.  Something about the place, and the honestly tasty hot dogs, brought a sense of comfort that sounds stupid as I write this.  I was with my wife, who I loved, looking forward to my two healthy girls, whom we both love dearly, and eating food (which we really needed).  Ukiah has a movie theater there that I remember as a child.  I went there once as a teenager, too.  Ukiah now has another memory in my heart and mind now: the place where Jessica and I decided we will try for a third child – a place that has some endings, but also an important beginning.  The beginning for the plan for three Peterman kids for Randy and Jessica.

We’re doing OK.  We’re doing well.  We’re doing this on purpose.  And we’re looking forward to seeing this little child we didn’t get to meet on this earth in heaven.

Pre-Road Trip Jitters

We’re leaving on what can only be described as a crazy road trip.  We’ll be hitting 8 states: Colorado (we live on the eastern side of the state and have to drive through it going west, over the Rockies), Utah (all the way across), Nevada (all the way across), California (all the way across), Oregan (all the way up), Washington (the southern half), Idaho (All the way across the lower half), back through Utah and into Wyoming on 80 and then south into Denver.  In two and a half weeks.

I’m anxious, but mostly because I hate getting up at 2:00 AM – and then driving for 20 hours.  But we’re glad to see everyone we’ll see.  Maybe we’ll see you.

You Are Not Reading This Here

[as per my wife’s instructions this is not an announcement]

I am so excited I can’t tell you how excited I am.  But I CAN tell you that we’re having another baby (gender unknown) and its pretty darn awesome.  Just have to let you know.

Names that will cheese off people who think we should name the baby other names, or who think it should be kept a secret:

Girl: Charlotte Rose Peterman – nickname: Charlie, though Unkle Kurt has said he’ll call her Lotty.

Boy: Eric Matthew Peterman – nickname: Eric, though Unkle Kurt has said he’ll call him Eric.

We’re excited and hope you’ll celebrate with us!

There is a Special Place in Hell for Virus Coderz

I just wanted to let you know that I’m not dead.  This weekend, aside from celebrating with the family the resurrection of Jesus the Christ, I helped some friends with their computer.  After about 10 hours of funk, trying this, trying that and generally hating malicious people who write viruses I was able to remove it from the machine and then set it up to be more secure, a wee faster, and hopefully useful for them in the months to come.

Hell has a special place for virus coderz and I’m pretty sure they only serve caffeine free diet soda there.

I Have a Family

I’m pretty sure that some of you will be wondering about now if I have forgotten that there is a wife and two daughters and a sister-in-law that are part of my life.  I love them dearly, but basically since the beginning of the year we’ve been either sick or traveling or both.  I need to force us all into the same room and force us all to make ridiculous faces so that we can have a picture to post so that those who are more distant will see more closely how crazy we are in digital form.

I love my family and to my knowledge we’re all healthy, Abby’s school is going well as is her dance class and Jessica is starting Evie in gymnastics on Monday next week.  I’m not sleeping tonight (I’ve been up since about 3) for no apparent reason, but I figured I’d take a stab at putting information on this blog that folks might also read.

While I haven’t blogged a lot lately I am posting weird bits on Twitter and you can follow some stuff (and repeats of what’s on Twitter) on Facebook.  Just for fun here are some updates from Twitter that I posted last week on a business trip:

Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: listening to some hip hop bit at the airport. White & nerdy indeed [weird al reference].
Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: customs had *4* sitting employees not open. they were chatting whilst we stood by.

Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: Toronto International better deliver on some cheese after this rat maze.
Canada, you get an “eh” for effort.
Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: applebutter BBQ sauce for the gigantic win. [seek this out]
Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: “These are our dog’s and ponies.”
Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: dog & pony show went well. They want to use a few one trick ponies in another movie.

Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: if we catch the rabbit down this trail I’m totally cutting its foot off for luck.

Kevin & Randy’s excellent adventure: note to self disable EVERYTHING but PowerPoint. Kills bings, bongs, & popups.

All of those “Tweets” [and more!] were done while on a trip with a great guy, marketing director, and handy travel companion, Kevin.  I’d tell you more but I’d have to grill you.

Flying: From Canada to Denver

Thursday afternoon at 4:20 PM EST my flight from Canada to Chicago O’Hare was scheduled to depart.  Upon boarding the plane I paused in line to let two officers escort a large man onto the airplane.  I don’t know what he did, who he was, or if he had made fun of their maple syrup, but the guy was being escorted onto the plane I was getting onto.  I’ll just say that my idea of a good time does not involve being trapped in a metal tube thousands of feet above the ground (or water in the case of the great lakes) with a potential bad guy sitting only a few rows in front of me.  As the plane took off myself and pretty much all of the passengers kept an eye on him.  That is until I fell asleep.

I awoke to the sound of the captain speaking on the intercom, but all other passengers, including the escortee, were still seated.  Fortunately nothing crazy happened and when we landed no officers came to collect this unique individual.  I’ll assume he had no papers or passport.  I don’t know, but I didn’t want to ask lest he help me discover a more practical heavenly position by rushing me through the process of dying.

After enjoying the zoo that is Chicago O’Hare airport I boarded the plane en route to Denver.  I stayed awake this time as I had already napped on the other flight and I was seated next to a woman who was not my wife, I didn’t want to wake up with her pushing me off of her as I had unknowingly snoozed in her direction.  I spent some time viewing podcasts, read a little Fast Company, and generally waited until we could land in Denver.  Upon coming close to the landing strip the flight attendant gently suggested that all passengers stay seated and buckled while airport personnel board the plane.

Did someone puke?

Did someone start having labor pangs?

We landed, taxied to the jet bridge and then sat waiting for personnel to quickly board the plane and then walk to the very back of the plane where they found their man and escorted him off the plane.  What gives?!  Did the guy threaten someone?  Did he happen to be on the FBI’s most wanted list?  Did he mention terrororists?

I have no idea, but after waiting for the police to exit the plane the rest of the passengers moved in slow motion and exited the plane in a fashion that can only be described as sloth-like.  In fact, I think this may have been faster than sloths, but slower than a sloth in a panic.  After leaving the plane I could see that the other passenger was being questioned still by ‘airport personnel’ and I was glad that they hadn’t grabbed me.  Mostly because I think I stole a single dry bean from the grocery store in elementary school and they’re still looking for me.

Plane & Simple

I was traveling this last week and barely got time to spend with some friends that went out of their way to see me.  Louanne and Nadia were twice out to see me and due to lots of other things going on while taking this trip I barely got time with them.  Sorry you two!  That being said I’m really grateful for friends like that who are willing to go out of their way to hang out.

I also managed to not get time with Vincent this trip.  He also hasn’t talked to me on the phone all that much due to him calling when I’m in the middle of something.  Sadly that something is usually when he has time – one day, probably in heaven we’ll have enough time.

I also didn’t get a lot of sleep this last week – serving folks and doing presentations and what not, but the good thing is that most everything went off without a hitch.

I’m leaving another country early Monday morning, which will be another business trip, but the good thing is that this trip will be amazingly new with new faces and new experiences.

All of this leads me to one thing: I love my friends and family and I’m entirely grateful for their love and support through these wild times.  Thanks!