During my lesson I was teaching in adult Sunday school I said, “I was talking to this lady on the phone. I don’t know she was a lady, I don’t know about her personal choices…” yeah, what I learned was that you shouldn’t say that out loud no matter what you’re thinking IN your head.
That’s one of those “Did I say that out loud?” moments. I have those all the time in my classroom. Maybe it’s a teaching thing.